Reflections of a Mom's Life
Showing posts sorted by date for query loving our kids. Sort by relevance Show all posts
Showing posts sorted by date for query loving our kids. Sort by relevance Show all posts

Monday, March 15, 2010

loving our kids on purpose



i really can't say enough WONDERFUL things about this book. after reading it, we've realized we have always wanted to parent this way but just did not know HOW to make it happen. he really shows you how. WOW. it's been eye opening. we can truly shower our children with love while setting firm limits AND keep the FIGHT out of it. completely. firm limits, without the fight???? really??? i think i thought i was supposed to learn how to survive the fight and come out of it the winner. and it doesn't have to be like that at all!

practical, lots of good tips that WORK, and focuses on the CONNECTION with our children. his explanation and approach to parenting is something we had never heard before when it comes to "how to get my kids to obey and not go insane in the process." :) we are excited about the future with our children! i think for the first time ever, i'm not afraid for my children to grow up to be teenagers. i actually think we'll be OK! :)

check it out, i just know you won't regret it!

Monday, November 9, 2009

Outer Banks 1/2 Marathon, November 8, 2009

I ran my second 1/2 Marathon in the Outer Banks this weekend! Can't hardly believe I've run two now...in one year! There was a time in my life where I thought running for any reason other than a life threatening situation would be CRAZY! I've only been running for a year and 3 months. To be honest, I'm still in a lot of shock. I just never thought this would be me...and neither did Anthony or any of my family! :)

I'm so glad that it IS me now! I LOVE it. I'm so proud of it! I'm so thankful for it! I'm so amazed at what you can do when you put your mind to it! There were many times over the weekend and even during the race that I thanked the Lord for the health to run, for the ability to run, for the desire to run, for the opportunity to run. I really am so thankful.

We left on Saturday around 12pm for the Outer Banks. We were all so excited! It took us about 3 1/2 hours to get there. We went straight to the expo so I could pick up my packet.

finding my name and bib number


hey y'all!

getting my bib and timing chip

my fans! they were so excited for me and i was loving every minute of it!

after the expo, we headed over to Pizza Hut - a real sit down one that you don't see very often anymore - and ate some yummy pizza! then we headed to the hotel so we could get settled and in bed early. we dressed the kids in their clothes and put them to bed. we were planning to leave at 5am so we wanted to make getting out as stress free as possible. the night before a race is stressful enough and i had to fight those feelings and try not to be a total freak show to my family! :)

5am departure to the starting line!

runner drop of and potty stop :)

saying goodbye


my fans waited patiently to see me run by...



here we go...well, there go the fast runners :)

enjoying life...as she always does!

this was Anthony's attempt to get my picture. the plan was for me to run on the right side of the road and he would be waiting for me at the YMCA. i got excited in taking off that i forgot the Y would be coming up so quickly and was in the middle of the pack. oh well! :) we saw each other at least and i waved but he wasn't able to catch me on camera.



hanging out and killing time while mommy was racing

here they caught me at mile 8 and i was still feeling good

here is the bridge that we ran over. it was beautiful and hard. mile 10 so i was getting tired anyway. :) really wanted to walk some of it but just pushed through and enjoyed the downhill...finally! :)

Anthony found me just after the bridge and passed me in the car. it was so fun to hear them yelling and screaming as they were driving past. just the push i needed to make it to the end!

the race was really GREAT! i ran with the 2:15 pace group in an effort to meet my goal time. i didn't really know if it was achievable. i hoped it was but i'm still just not sure of what i'm capable of most of the time. it was funny...i was talking about that with one of the pacers, a seasoned marathoner and runner, and she said that most of the time you never really figure that out. every race is different. very interesting.

up to mile 10 i was able to stick with the pace group but once we hit the hill i fell behind. they were running ahead of pace and i knew we had banked some time. i just had to do what i could at that point. was able to keep them in sight but tried not to stress. i was feeling SO tired and while my pace was good, by mile 11 and 12 i was hurting and willing my legs to keep running. walking sounded so appealing but i continued to push through and ignore those desires! the last two miles were HARD but that's to be expected i guess and i had pushed myself much harder than i ever had before.

it was SO good to see the finish in sight! my pacer was already waiting at the finish...they got there early...and ran with me to the end...yelling that i had done it! met my goal!!! it was an incredible feeling to know i had not only RUN the 1/2 but finished just under what i had hoped to do! amazing!

official chip time - 2:14:51 10:18 pace
my last race i finished in 2:24 so i was SO happy to shave 10 minutes off my time!



sore but happy! this will sound weird to many of you but this race i really felt like a "runner". the first one i was just excited to finish. i didn't know if i could run the whole thing. i hoped to, but had determined not to be upset if i couldn't. i had a goal time but was just going to be happy to finish. period. :)

this time i was hoping for more! hoping for a pace and time i hadn't run before at that long of a distance. hoping i was capable and would have probably been disappointed if i hadn't been able to do it. but the whole time, i knew i was a runner. i knew i could push myself. i knew i could run it all. i knew i could do it even if it was hard. it was a different feeling. it was more challenging and i loved every minute of it. i love being a runner.


gotta love the medal!


the first picture i take he is always silly. his punishment is me posting this on the blog. :)

love my man! i couldn't do any of this without him. we didn't have anyone to take our picture at the race so this is the only one i have! he is such an encourager to me! he loves that i'm running. he loves that i want to run with him. i know he never saw that one coming! :) he is so proud and he makes me feel amazing! he watches the kids when i'm training and have to be away for 2 hours on a Saturday and he never complains. he's excited for me! i love that we can have this in common now. Anthony...thank you SO much for loving me the way you do and for making me believe i can do anything! I LOVE YOU SO MUCH!

Friday, August 28, 2009

the best kind of pit-stop


meeting baby Caleb for the FIRST time!!!

isn't that the sweetest little face

Addison was excited to play with Callie again...she was walking this time so she could keep up a little better!


Harrison really enjoyed holding baby Caleb between games with his buddy Josiah


isn't he precious!!! and so contented! such a good baby boy!

Tutu - Katy's mom - was there and it was so fun to be able to spend some time getting to know her a little better. We've really only had the opportunity to say a quick hello in the past so this was a treat for me! I'm SO glad she was able to come and spend some time with the kids and meet little Caleb. i know Katy sure appreciated having her around!

there he is, holding Caleb again. :)

had to make it over to the pool!

Anthony had a business lunch in South Columbia and had taken the suitcases with him. the boys just wore their shorts to swim and Addison borrowed a swimsuit from Callie




Anthony quickly let me know that while holding Caleb was a lot of fun it didn't make him want to have another little one join our family. :)

the next morning, we all insisted that Katy sleep in a little bit. after Callie got dressed i asked her if it would be OK for me to do her hair. i LOVE playing with and styling little girl's hair! :) she was so sweet and agreed. here she is showing off her hair do. after we were done she said "no touch." :) so cute! love this little girl! and i can't wait for Addison to get some more hair!



Oh how we enjoyed being able to stop in on the Schrodt's again! I felt sort of bad when I asked Katy if we could put it on the calendar a month before Caleb arrived but she insisted that we could "pop" in. We tried to not be a burden and made sure we took care of dinner. I love, love, love holding these babies when they are little and knowing that we would practically be driving by their house on our way to Hilton Head...I just could not pass that up!

It was wonderful holding that precious baby boy and loving on him for about 24 hours. That's pretty much how long we stayed. We got there around 10:30am on Thursday and left at 12:00pm on Friday for our vacation. It was perfect! The boys just picked up where they left off which I love and Addison and Callie were a little bit more like playmates this time because Addison is walking and "playing" more. Anthony was able to get a little work in while David was at work and Karen, Katy & I just got to chat and enjoy that sweet baby boy! After dinner and all the kids were in bed, we were able to just sit and chat some more. Can you tell I loved every single minute of it? Time with my sweet friend and her precious baby boy...it was the best kind of pit-stop!